i am sure many of us will have their own list of criteria for their partners.
stop telling me you will accept everything they have because i am sure there is something that attract you at the beginning.
but sometimes it isn't within our means.
if we can meet someone of the list, it will be nice. if not, god definitely arrange someone better. isn't it?
everyone wants to find that special one to spend the rest of their life with, no one wanna be alone.
many of my friends know that i have been into a few relationships which didnt work out at all.
it doesn't mean there is noone out there who likes or love me. just that i don't have the feel towards them.
i feel it is really time to reflect on what went wrong in all this relationships so i come up with this list.
note: it only act as a gauge. when times come, it may not be what it is.
here it goes:
1. he must be pleasant looking.
i don't mean handsome. handsome will have a lot of bees around them. and most guys can't resist these kind of temptations. i just want to look at someone who is comfortable looking?
2. he must be at least 1.7cm.
i am 1.52cm. it is not difficult to find someone taller than me. but i want a 1.7cm at least. when i wear heels (even though i seldom wear), he must still be taller than me. and i want my kid to be tall next time. not like me pls.
3. huggable & tan.
i like sort of meaty guy. i wanna hug a meaty guy better than a boney guy. meaty doesn't mean fat. i just want meaty and fit guy. IPPT still can get silver even though he is meaty. i like tan guy. not those fair fair kind, it looks sick when a guy is fair.
4. filial, family oriented & respectful.
all my ex bfs are all very respectful to their own parents and my parents. even though of all, i only bring home one. guy who is respectful to my parents will gain their trust faster. i am a girl who doesn't have much freedom since young. even till now, my mommie will make noise if i keep going out late in the night. by gaining their trust, i am able to go late night movies with him. (even though only one of them did it.) Respect me and my friends is important too. not bitching about them when you doesn't know them well.
5. gentlemanly.
i like guys who will help me when i am carrying heavy bags or heavy things. he will extend his hand himself to carry it for me. i don't care about opening car door for me, which i think it is not necessary or even help me with the seat at the table, not necessary too. it will be sweet if he knows how to hold my hand himself before moving off together. or even in the cinema, you feel cold, he will put his warm hands around you. little gesture means a lot to ladies. (:
6. taking initiative.
i am someone who doesn't know how to start a msg or a whatsapp or even a call. i always have this mindset that if he wanna talk to me, he will. or else, i will find myself disturbing him. i love guys who plan our date. not the other way round.
7. accepting my family and my background.
every family has their own problems. mine too. i hope he will accept everything about my family and my background.
8. career driven & mature mindset.
every guy should have this. it is something that all guys need. i like my man to focus when he is working because i feel guy look super charming when they focus! i don't like guys who talk as if they are still 17. pls, not young anymore. think like a man!
9. smart, confident & dress neatly.
smart as in know what to talk in front of people, social friendly. confident in the way he talk and presenting himself. no girls want their bf to dress like beggars. every girls want their bf to dress neatly, no body odour.
10. childish at times.
i like to have a bf who knows how to play hard too. disturbing each other and teasing each other. i don't want a relationship with just giving in. disturbing can sometimes be fun too!
11. male.
of course this is the main point. i am straight! i only like male. i got approach by lesbian before. super scary can!!!
5. gentlemanly.
i like guys who will help me when i am carrying heavy bags or heavy things. he will extend his hand himself to carry it for me. i don't care about opening car door for me, which i think it is not necessary or even help me with the seat at the table, not necessary too. it will be sweet if he knows how to hold my hand himself before moving off together. or even in the cinema, you feel cold, he will put his warm hands around you. little gesture means a lot to ladies. (:
6. taking initiative.
i am someone who doesn't know how to start a msg or a whatsapp or even a call. i always have this mindset that if he wanna talk to me, he will. or else, i will find myself disturbing him. i love guys who plan our date. not the other way round.
7. accepting my family and my background.
every family has their own problems. mine too. i hope he will accept everything about my family and my background.
8. career driven & mature mindset.
every guy should have this. it is something that all guys need. i like my man to focus when he is working because i feel guy look super charming when they focus! i don't like guys who talk as if they are still 17. pls, not young anymore. think like a man!
9. smart, confident & dress neatly.
smart as in know what to talk in front of people, social friendly. confident in the way he talk and presenting himself. no girls want their bf to dress like beggars. every girls want their bf to dress neatly, no body odour.
10. childish at times.
i like to have a bf who knows how to play hard too. disturbing each other and teasing each other. i don't want a relationship with just giving in. disturbing can sometimes be fun too!
11. male.
of course this is the main point. i am straight! i only like male. i got approach by lesbian before. super scary can!!!
i don't know how my next bf will be. be it he meet all this requirement or not, no one knows.
for now, i just attributed everything to fate and destiny. i am sure god have arrange everything for me.
i will go with the flow and just be myself all this time.
BYEBYE. i shall blog again soon.
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